Making choices…

J has been progressing well with his pecs and Makaton. We are now at the stage where he has to discriminate between symbols. Basically he has to make a choice of what he wants and give me the symbol. Then he has to correctly reach for that item. It’s seems a bit like doubling the workload for him but it’s actually helping to make sure his communication is meaningful and what he actually wants!

Even if your child isn’t using pecs, giving choices is a great to way to develop communication. 

  • Hold out two toys and ask which they would like. They may point or take one from you. You can they use the word for them (“you want to ball”). 
  • Give child two toys to hold, then hold out two more. Ideally, they will decide which toy to drop and which one to replace it with. By having the other hand full it will stop them from instinctively taking both choices.
  • Use pictures. They don’t have to be official symbols-a photo or hand drawn picture will work. They can point to a choice and you can then give them the ‘word’. E.g.: fruit choices for snack.
  • Give multiple options during play. E.g. When colouring hold out a few pencils and and the colours, asking which they would like. When playing with garage/car set name different vehicles they can have such as car, van, fire engine so they have the vocabulary. 

J is having mixed success. He often sees two pictures and then wants both the items…especially when food based! But considering he isn’t even 2 yet, we’ll excuse him for now, haha. 

How do your little ones make choices? Any advice or experience you’d like to share? Please like, comment or come see us on our Facebook page 🙂


7 Comments Add yours

  1. I haven’t read any of your post’s yet, but skimming through we seem very similar lol. I refer to my little one by his first initial and each photo seems carefully chosen to not show his identity.
    Im new to this…. but it’s very nice to meet you! Xx

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    1. mummyest2014 says:

      Yeah I noticed that with your posts too! I’m trying to share our story but make sure his privacy is respected as much as possible. I’m new to blogging and this website so still figuring it all out 🙂 x

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      1. Hopefully we can learn from each other! X

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      2. mummyest2014 says:

        Definitely. I’ll share any secrets I learn haha x

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      3. I had 56 posts yesterday, i deleted most of them…Or set them to private as had lots of photo’s i no longer wished to share etc. Best to be safe than sorry xx


  2. Susan says:

    Brilliant post,so nice to hear J getting on so well. My almost two year old just wants all choices any time I offer choices to him. It can be so frustrating at times but I do think it’s important to keep doing it xx

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    1. mummyest2014 says:

      Thanks hun, it’s definately a skill to persevere with. Mind you I still have trouble with choices myself but that might be more sleep deprivation haha 🙂


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